I am sure that they will practice social distancing. That means that in the cemetary their graves will be 6 feet apart.

Bill….you saved YOURSELF with your Moxie! No doubt it’s been getting you through all of this. Sometimes as much as we love someone, we can’t SAVE someone from their determination to “stay in”. I wish things had been different for you & she, but as you note, it is what it is.

In 1994 a teen friend of my daughter’s died from AIDS. He and his younger brother both got AIDS f rom tainted blood transfusions for their Hemophilia. The youngest boy was born healthy and still living. The mother’s first husband deserted her & their first two sons because of the AIDS issue.

The mother remarried about three years after being deserted by the boys’ father, & they had one child together, a son, who was born healthy. Her husband, the step father, stood by her sons & he WAS a real standout Step Father…the boys were well loved & supported by their mother, step father, extended family & many friends from the community . Sadly the eldest son died at 17, the 2nd son at 15….the youngest sons born healthy remains so today.

Both boys & the school took all precautions to keep everyone safe, & both of these boys had a lot of friends & a very supportive mother of course.
The mother & I are still in contact…

From myself, husband & family…we send you all our best wishes & thank you for being the wonderful person you are.! PLEASE consider writing that book Bill…..you NEED to get your experience OUT there!

I am touched by your comm. Thank you. My now former wife undoubtably saved my life by getting me to the hospital after talking to her sister who just happened to work at San Francisco General Hospital which has the oldest operating AIDS clinic in the world.
Dr Diane Havlir was my HIV doctor there. She has worked there since 1981 when she changed her specialty to work with the disease later known as AIDS. I talked with her about this, the horror of being a doctor to people you could do nothing for except, as she said, prescribe ” compassion” and watch them die. She was the Co Chairman of the World Aids day a few years ago and has done a lot of research. She has saved a lot of lives.
My now ex-wife disappeared 5 years ago and I can only imagine that she was ordered to disconnect from me when I was declared SP for telling my story. I have still never seen a copy of the Declare order.

Ehi Bill, I heard what you said. I learned doing meditation that life is you. Not in you. Care about the present. Not the past nor the future. They aren’t here. Don’t put weight of attention there. We are talking and so we are meeting somehow, I found thanks to you and other guys here to be a decent sp too. Do well

Jere. My english is a bit spaghetti, I meant that they want to bring people in present time. But they are out of it, and have no reality of what is really going on.

Jere: I think that there are a few that would welcome it. After 16 years on board, I knew that there were worse things than death.